Married fast? Too late? Completely stuck :/

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Baby Steps is all you can do. If your shaking though go find somewhere you can get some peace. any interaction now is likely to be pretty hostile.

I've been where you are loads of times and the looking at her phone isnt going to do you any good unless you want a very combative situation.

think about it what is the best that can happen from looking?

thought about it?





Got anything good yet?


nope - nothing good will come from it. seriously been there so often (even in the last week) and nothing good comes from it.

On the plus side you didn't pretend so its all in the open rather than hidden undercurrent.

Thanks Jim. I had to look because she did not want to confess. At least I got this out of the way now.
Did you ever confront one of the affair partners? If so how?

This is the worst day of my life, and I thought it just got better :(((