I know what you've all said (a few times now) but it still astonishes me that she is so angry at me and in the end she has got really angry at me over nothing. In fact its back to bugging me

I'm going to put the worst spin i can on what happened today

She didnt hear from all day but was anxious about whether i had done what i need to do. when i got in late from work i said a brief hello before disappearing. I then sent an email with the changed agreement, didnt mention it while i got changed to go out. when confronted by this i simply smirked and said i was going out, before refuse to commit to the deadline my W has set for her move, which she is really anxious about because there is a lot of money involved and she is scared it will collapse.

So all of this ^^^ makes her think i'm trying to exact some kind of retribution which is about the furthest thing from my mind these days.

and she calls me controlling.......


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress