FYI. W and OM are supposedly friends since a longer time before marriage. They never dated but liked each other. He seems to be a nicer guy but definitely flirts heavy with my wife and disrespects our marriage to a certain extend.
I am very close to tell him to respect my marriage and our problems and to back off. I am not sure if that would do any good.

Here my old thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2517929#Post2517929

Last edited by Complex; 01/12/15 11:09 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15