Holy ....

My wife goes showering. She accidentally left her phone. Since she told me she doesn't text him on whatsapp I look at her regular texts.....and I find everything!!!!

She was texting him everyday. They have an EA. It's not physical regarding to the texts. But it's very clear they are flirting heavy.

She came to get her phone and I didnt even pretend...she saw me with it and it all blew up.

I'm shaking. What should I do???


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15