MCS and Pink, my heart goes out to you. From what I can tell about your sitchs, you've both had lots of reason for optimism, then there are huge setbacks. My sitch has been hard, but the ups and downs of yours must be really tough.
I don't know if it's just the mentality I've had reading this forum, but a couple of weeks ago I read a lot of hopeful posts. Today there seem to be so many about giving up and moving on. Maybe it's post-holiday blues. It's just so sad that we are all going through our version of this. F*ing heartbreaking.
Me: 39 W: 46 D: 7.5 S: 5 SD: 16 SS: 12 T: 2 (06/2012) M: 2 (12/2012) Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014