IMHO, both you and your H are going to have to learn how to compromise. This includes your feelings of resentment towards each other. You say that he doesn't apologize, yet he does and when he does it's not good enough for you because you feel he either doesn't mean it or doesn't get why he's apologizing in the first place.
BOTH of you need to be a little more specific. Rather than telling him that you need an apology (which is someone no one likes to be told), give him examples. Tell him the times that you appreciated when he did something and expand on that. Then have him do the same.
The two of you are communicating are on two different levels and both can't understand why the other doesn't "get it".
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
