I had a meeting at school today regarding my first graders speech problem. Totally unexpectedly towards the end of the meeting her main teacher not speech teacher said because she is behind in reading she may get left back. I completely disagree with this assessment.
(Also her main teacher just came back from maternity leave and has only been her teacher since thanksgiving! - she barely knows my daughter)
I then texted exh about it looking for support and asked if he could write a follow email to the teachers to find out what we can do to support our d6. I thought I was too emotional and pissed to write the email. He called me back and said that I should write the email since I was at the meeting. Then he said I forgot to fill out a form online to complete the split of the brokerage account and if I could do that right away cause he needs that money.
I was literally crying cause my daughter might get left back and he is just thinking about $$.
Trust me I have 0 expectation that he would do anything for me but sometimes I still have expectations that he act like a dad
It's hard not having a partner when you are raising kids. It's hard to know when I am over reacting. It helps to have a sounding board. Luckily my sister is a teacher and I have other mom friends and I have you guys and I have alAnon.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
