25yrsmlc really nailed some of my worries on this thread. I feel linking these nuggets of pure gold may help someone else too.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2522816&page=8

Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14
I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.