I've shifted my perspective a bit. I'm continuing to offer words and deeds of support and not having any expectation or resentment about it. H is hurting a lot and very stressed about this. I will help in the only way I am really able--by taking childcare duties off his plate as much as possible and not making him feel bad about that.
That is what I do (I would think) if we were together.
This is not about me right now. And if I feel like I need a break, I can call on someone else to help.
Labug. .. yes, sometimes I act so entitled. Can you say more? I'm not sure what you mean about finding out where it comes from.
