May be best just to do whatever is going to be the plan for S and you. Whilst things may be mixed with your W, she isn't making any reconciliation moves as such...but who knows in the longer term? But not soon enough for your decision.

Is S happy at school where he is? How happy are you where you are living? And with your current work etc? Where does your heart really want to be?

Best of luck Bunches. You're doing really well x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus