Ok so yes we have been together for about 9 years and yes they are all ours. I understand she did not get to "live" her life the way she thought she would. We both gave up alot but she resents me for giving up less she feels. Well kinda just happen I guess but im fixed now and cant have anymore.
So she definitely remembers everything she has been pretty happy in the text she wrote me. I will wait till she says something because after the rule breaking last night, I feel I need to take a step back and reassess the sitch. We both had a great time last night.
More on her back ground yes she is 24 and I feel like this is somewhat of phase she is going thru... but what do I do to help her? Do I just sit back and let her ruin everything now? Im tring to fix myself and my counseler says im making great progress that im a resilient man. Truthfully im trying not to beat myself till she talks to me tonight when I get off work.
