She is looking to change positions...I think that is part of it (part of the MLC that she is in). Daughter knows something is up..."I know you and Dad are not good" because she shows me little affection in front of them.
She is in tough spot. Knows I love her but does not want to leave the home and break the family. We do not argue much and hold each other still in the mornings (both of us initiate). She continues to state that I need to find someone else - I reply "please concentrate on yourself"
It is a odd, odd sitch. Just going to ride this one out, plan for the worse and pray for the best. It is worth it. We have been together 21 years...this sitch has been 6 months long. I owe her and the fam as much time as it takes.
In the end, I will know that I tried everything...but she does not seem to be changing. She has stated that "I closed the door and just cannot flip the switch back on." I still believe that this is related to her MLC and EA with OM.
The process is changing me and has made me a better person...but I will not lie and state that right now I could forgive her if this occurs expecially with OM...I know that may change.
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on
