Just to clarify, he asked me to sell the house this spring so I have to move either way (I want to also, I don't want to/can't afford to live in this house another full year, especially divorced).

So a move is in my near future either way, the question is, I do see the house that would be perfect for me except a small question of down payment, if I could otherwise make it work is there any reason to let it go and rent an imperfect house just for the sake of letting time pass.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.