a) you're Divorced b) he's with an OW c) there's an RO in place d) you want some stability for you and your kids right now
Even if he reaches out, I wouldn't respond with much. If he really wants to reconcile, he'll show this over a period of time. Wanting to flirt, ML or 'cheat' with you are different to reconciling.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus