Absolutely right Gg no one - Ever - should have to tolerate any kind of threats in a r be it spouse, child, parent or relative.

Im really happy you and S17 are getting on better, as to the cats well this big one is enough, two was sometimes a handful, 7? arghhhhhhh and I dont have lambie etc to deal with!

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015