Bright - I think most of them go through this fb thing. I nearly fainted when I heard my xh was on it - I never ever looked. But when you think about it it is a perfect vehicle for people who want to wear a mask. They can present an unchallenged facade to the world.

He told me some time ago he is no longer on fb but I have never bothered to check if he is telling the truth. I am not interested.

It is a part of their journey, trying out new things.

Hang in there.