Do not get fearful. And a newsflash buddy, you can't lose her, for she is already lost to you. Ditch the fear, fear is the mind killer. So what if she stops talking to you? What good did the recent conversations bring you? None?!?
Dude, time to focus on yourself and release all ideas of control you think you have. Go watch the video again... Release control, focus on you and let her the four be...