It takes a long time for them to figure out that you are not the blame for all their unhappiness. My spouse blamed me for his unhappiness when we spilt 2.5 yrs ago. Now when we had coffee last week he realizes it wasn't me at all. It was his MLC.

It takes time and distance for them to reflect back and really see. I was packed in a negative boxed and neatly put on a shelve. Now he is able to see what I did do and the efforts I made.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.