[BrightFuture]

att, thanks for the insight. I agree with you that MLCer wants to be popular, like a teenager. My H never had poor r skills with the people. He was always be able to talk to people everywhere. He was quite comfortable in the bars by himself, because he was always able to strike the conversations with strangers. At least on the surface he was always very sociable guy.

This was actually one of the argument points, that he made friends with single women who I had no idea about until I found out. H always made “friends” easily. Mind you that these were not real friends, just the people he knew and kept in touch with when it was convenient for him.

Part of the reason for H to leave me was that I was not good enough keeping in touch with people I met. I was not sociable enough for him. I’m still trying to understand what this is about…

So, this whole FB thing just doesn’t make sense to me. It is like texting and talking and socializing at the bars and stuff is not enough for him now. He wants to be out there, in the social media space, which he ridiculed before.

I just don’t know this guy anymore.