You know, S, he is who he is right now. That's the truth of it. So you have to figure out how to handle that in a way that isnt going to get you upset.
He is unhappy. He doesnt really know why. So, he blamed the person closest to him. He said he didnt want to be married, but he is still unhappy. So, he is going to blame the money, and after that, it will be something else....until he looks inside and sees what it really is.
But really, who cares why he is saying this now? He agreed initially, and you made arrangements to have your d tested. You did what you thought was best for her.
He is just looking for ways to place blame. Dont let him.
You did great not reacting.
Now you just have to let what he says roll off your back.
