I hope you found some comfort. what you've written was very poignant and moving. Life is short and its is important we make the best of what we have.
Sandi, you support so many people on these boards with your wisdom and advice. I have no idea how many people you have helped save and how many marriages for that matter but the number is many and i'm sure each one greatly appreciates the time you've given them (I certainly do).
the past cant be changed but we can always try to make amends and honour those we love and who care for us by what we do, and the good you do here honours everyone who cares about you.
I'm very sorry for your loss
Take care
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
