Again had the kids - made pancakes for breakfast and then played at home this morning; did some fun stuff with duplo and playdough. W went out (shops and gym) for most of the morning but saw we had had fun.
Wife took D3 to the cinema this afternoon, she was really happy to have the 1 on 1 time with D3 and I enjoyed my all too rare 1 on 1 time with S1. Nothing special just played silly games and read stories
If you took out the tension from W and added some affection between us it would have been a really nice family day. our conversation was light and friendly though W did pepper it slightly with seperation related stuff
W spent a load of time doing her nevous twitching and her twirling. She looked good and I smiled, she saw and accused me of smirking. (previous twirling has all coincided with OM stuff). I decided ther was no way to know why she was doing it so just smiled, told her it was just a happy thought and moved on.
As soon as the kids were in bed W retreated to her room and for the first time with no insuation or assumption I really wondered 'what does she do?' - the only form of entertainment she has in there is her smartphone - I would be sooooo bored.
I spent the evening doing domestic stuff and watching a film
so hardly earth shattering but a decent and peaceful day
Last edited by jim0987; 01/11/1511:15 PM.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
