Thanks Vanilla,

I had roasted peach in a restaurant in barcelona once and it was delicious. I had completely forgotten about it until you mention baked nectarines

I do always appreciate your insights and thoughts and i've reread what you wrote. I felt the conversation had gone well but in retrospect its because i was more in control of me and managed to get a couple of relationship nuggets, as well as having the opportunity to openly discuss our fears. but too much relationship talk.

this morning I did the same things - I latched onto a small point and drove a big truck of relationship stuff in there. this morning W made a comment about 1 on 1 time with the kids and i said something about us not acting independantly enough to really make the most of things

this is one of the criticisms is that I dont just let things go, i make a bigger point (over and over). Good to reflect on and I think kind of what you were saying.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress