I need to say this, or type it I guess. I am scared that my W will file in this highly emotional state, it hurts. I cannot do anything to stop her if she does, I can only control my actions. I don't want my fear to bring out the hot poker of pressure and force her into what I am scared of, her filing while riding this emotional roller coaster.

Just five days before we were thinking about buying or building a $500k house. Not exactly a steady emotional state with us.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15