Haha thanks, I sort of worked it out a while back tbh but I tend to blow it by asing her questions...... I've not asked her anything this week though and it seems to work because she spends more and more time here just chatting.
She came here again today and spent 2 hours cleaning upstairs, we had a chat about a TV series we used to watch together that has just started a second series and it felt more normal than usual.
She came back over again tonight and said she finds herself saying things that I would say when she's talking to her friends.
After she left she text me to say I looked in a panic when my phone beeped earlier, I didn't though so I don't know why she said it ! She then text to ask could she put furniture she had got for her house in our house, I said there wernt any room and she got a bit argumentative, I didn't bite though I just replied lightheartedly that I knew she was buttering me up for something.
I think she was expecting me to argue over it but I kept it all sort of fun and friendly, it must have thrown her a bit as she didn't reply. Maybe it's some sort of little test ?