Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD - pt. 2

[Faith2b]

Omg your right on the money. Quit pressuring her!!!!!! Yes I def understand. Im in even a worse scenario. I pressure cooked my exh to the point he isin anothers arms and he actually put a RO on me...pressure cooker!! Well I have been working diligiantly on mbecoming more vulnerable. Allowing myself to feel the hurt anger is only a mask we put on because we are hurt. We have to back off and heal some more. I want so badly for him to call me. But guess what I would react badly because Im still hurt. I have to work through my pain in a healthy manner so I do not drive anymore distance between him and I. He regrets the RO but at this point evrything is for a reason. Dont worry about how she has lack of feelings or what she is venting on you. Focus on you and how you can stop pressuring her because at the end of the day we want them to be with us because they chose us not because they felt pressured.

Learn from me!!!


NO MORE PRESSURE!!! Ypur relationship depends on it. LOve only!!

Im talking to myself too.

And LET HER COME TO YOU MEANWHILE be ready by working on you!!!