Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

So, in my quest for knowledge and being a better man. Sans 180's, post divorce, anti-friend zone. I have gone on an Internet reconnaissance mission.
Looking at women that are friend zoned and how the get stuck, and get out. Not that I plan on getting friend zoned here.
Here is an excerpt ( this was written from a woman's point of view)..."That’s why you have to tell your best friend the truth: you’re in love with him, and because of that, you can’t be friends anymore. Yep, just like a break up. If he can’t see himself romantically with you, you’re going to have to cut him off entirely – not because you don’t care, not because you won’t miss him, but because at this time, you want to focus your energies on finding a life partner. He’ll protest, of course, but he really has no leg to stand on. If he loves you, he should want you to find the man you deserve.

You just have to have the guts to go out and find him, instead of waiting for your best friend to suddenly change his tune about you after three years."


Hmm, so that takes the wind out of the friend zone sails. The article mentions friend zoning is "All he has to do is be your best friend in a low-stakes platonic relationship. He gets all his needs met – and is still free to date other people." Mentions no dinners bought, unless he wants to. AND does not have to let you see his relationship flaws. Well in my case, and all of us here...we know our spouses flaws. More than likely, if you have dug deep, you know yours as well.
Hope this helps someone here. Back to my quest. Have a great one! Go buy yourself something, get a new hobby, go be yourself (for yourself). Take a day off.