Ganb8te 4 - Putting on my giraffe ears

[Ggrass]

Yes, you can work on you. If they however are delivering a clouded or muddy message the best communicator will still end up confused.

Not sure where I read it but often people get hung up on learning skills, when perhaps actions are required. If his message isn't delivered or he meant something totally different you having great skills isn't going to matter.

And crapola, I haven't explianed that very well.

My h was a very wordy talker, in fact h tatic was not to allow others to speak.
In this case validation and action, of simply taking it on board.
might have been more conducive rather than me offering to fix stuff, or trying to engage in better dialogue.