During logistical arrangements last Friday, Daft lass texted me saying she was shopping.

OK, what are you shopping for I replied.

Oh, just this and that she said.

S12 later revealed that it was actually a dress to wear to another wedding and a another works function coming up. Hmmm. This and that eh?

It's hard to treat someone like a friend or sister as my DB coach advised when they're holding you at arms length.

Every now and then I feel a surge of anger when I dwell upon the thought that she won't lift a finger to work on our marriage.

She tells people were 'in transition but we're still friends and co-parenting'. I don't feel like I'm one of her friends I can tell you. She texts all her other friends everything though.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner