Thanks a lot. I took a look at the video, it really helped. I've been trying to work through releasing control of all parts of the sitch with my IC. I've got it down for the R, our finances, the kids are the last thing. It's just the things she's done to the kids, they don't deserve it and then I get all Daddy Bear on her. The toughest part is how different her parenting seems right now.
I can say talking with the kids, she is getting better with her interactions with them. The kids will usually tell me what they did with her and it seems like she's not as focused on herself when their with her.
I've got a lawyer (she saw one within first week, I guess she was concerned with abandonment) and have been keeping track of most things that are noteworthy. I've got a few questions into the Lawyer about finances right now. We're in a 50/50 no fault state, so the joy of this whole thing is if we D, I'll owe her pile of money too.
Thanks for checking in. I appreciate it.
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
