Very wise words and I really value your insight regarding some timelines...and what may happen next.
Eight months (in the least), I can see that. The question I have, is there some point which I get to where I want my W to come back? Part of me feels I don't have a real place on the 'DB Forum' because as it stands right now, I have zero attraction to my W, and don't see myself being with someone which I am not attracted to. I don't want to sound like I am wasting anyone's time but honesty is the first rule here, right?
Just got back from a great evening out w/ one of my very close friends. We went to a local restaurant for dinner, a couple beers (probably my eighth and ninth beers, in total, since separation began) and some NFL playoff action. Now just winding down, thinking about church tomorrow and another quiet day to myself.
As always, looking forward to feedback, and appreciate everything that been brought to me by folks, so far.
Standing by.
M: 44 W: 35 D: 2.5 M +5 | T 10 OM + Affair admitted 11/11/14 Separated 11/27/14