Lisa, if you go you will likely stew about it for days afterward, for better or worse. Then you'll be wasting even more mental enery on him. Better to leave him be and wonder what you're up to (remember mystery?). Move on with your life. He doesn't deserve to see how fabulous you are.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!