Maybell, I just want to say that I think you killed it, and it sounds like your head is in the right spot. Just remember to let the emotions happen

So he just made his first guy friend in 10 years? That, to me, is almost more telling than the cheating. You have definitely done your share of introspection during this process, and that is what you should celebrate. Your WAH probably needs DB/IC more than you have, though.

Keep moving, Maybell

Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23