Ur and labug, thank you. Yes, I'm not really looking ahead so much as getting a bearing on where I am. And I'm where I need to be. At least for now.
Maybell, thank you for writing that all out. You deserve a rich, loving, committed and collaborative marriage and I understand where you're coming from when you say you don't want to divorce this man.
I disagree with your statements about grace. You have it in spades, at least from my perspective.