You are the only one that can determine when you've had enough. Had I been in your shoes,
You are far better woman than I would have been for doing this for three bloody years. I would have not have cooked him one meal after he left. After all, he left, he would learn to either cook or go to McDonald's, etc.
It's now time for you to soar and leave the man to fend for himself. Kitchen's closed and time for him to learn to grow up. He had his cake and ice cream each and every day and now he'll have to figure things out.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
