Yes, I believe it is uR. I also know I still have much to work on. Today is my worst day since Thursday court event. I got mail from bank that has our second mortgage. Apparently the account it was drawing from has changed by adding a $16.95 month charge. Wife got notice of change and did not inform me. Not only did they charge $5 per day for almost a month because the $16.95 was not in the account, but when I put the money in to cover the mortgage like I have for almost 2 years the drew the charges from it first leaving almost no money to cover the mortgage. So now I have a $30 late fee on that as well. So I am a bit upset and have to see what the bank will do now that we are divorced. Worst case is I will close the account and let them come after me to get the mortgage payment.
So even now she has hurt me by her refusal at times to communicate unless it is about her needs. I wish it were not so cold today or I would go for a walk.
So, yes I still have work on myself to not allow her to affect me by her actions.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
