I do realize she was a crush, although I would seriously be interested in the future. But I haven't even figured out my own M yet, much less had time to really move on if it ends officially. If it happens, it happens, but I'm not thinking about it anymore
As far as W with the dogs...she has had them more lately. But she has never been really hands on with our dogs. We had a different dog (and older one that we adopted) early in our R/M. We originally agreed it would be 50/50 for who walked her, but it turned into 95/5 me/her. I knew she would not watch them as much as she said she would when she moved to her apt. I didn't really worry about it while I was in the house, because they were cake to take care of there (fenced backyard). Now that I have to walk then just as much as W does when she has them, I have insisted she take them more. And she has. She had them for 5 days last week. If she keeps this up, I'm happy for now. But there still remains the question of what I want to do if we D and I'm permanently in a home, by myself, without a yard. I have time to figure that out, though
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Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
