I haven't posted for quite awhile but I still come and read and learn. It's been 3 years and still no sign that he's " cooked " yet! He had still been coming for breakfast every day but that was mostly the only time he'd come,finally last week I told him I'm done ,don't come any more, I don't need this bs. Haven't heard from him since? Still will run into him at grandchildren sporting events not sure how that will go. Any advice was that the right thing to do?