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YEAH, hopefully mr. XGB will step up and spend the needed time with kids, and at the same time you will have some YOU time, very important for parents to have to refresh and recharge.

I think it was ok for you to ask for what you needed from him and to mention that if his GF is there, it is ok, remove that excuse from his mind.

Hope you and your D got to spend that quality time without the boys.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW