Denied he'd cheated before, until I pressed him about "anything inappropriate" -- as though the one night stands didn't count.
Maybell, why did you feel the need to press him on this? Just because you wanted the bigger picture, because hearing more betrayal would help you detach, or...? I know it was important to you, and I'm glad you did it and that he was honest. I'm just trying to imagine myself asking the same questions, and I can't. I don't know that I want to know. And I don't think he'd ever answer anyway. I admire how you handled all this, and I'm thinking that because I can't do the same I have some more growing to do.
