It's not over...regardless of how I found out I know her and OM2 are still exchanging erotic messages over what they think are secret chat accounts. As early as this morning.

This situation doesn't sound anything like others I've read...seriously when we're together it's like there are no problems, we made love last night, we spend QT together, she genuinely seems like she wants to be with me and tells me she's happy with how things are going. But with this guy it's a whole different world they have going on, as if either I'm not there, or if at all I am just an obstacle to them conversing.

Is this the big, "have cake and eat it too," situation? I mean, the way I found out was by snooping again, something I said I wouldn't do, honestly if I hadn't checked I really wouldn't have a clue anything was wrong. I don't know what to do...