I agree with all you posted

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It is heartwrenching and soul breaking...


It is also soul making. I am starting to feel that I am becoming who I am meant to be. It is wisely said we cannot change the past, or the truth or another person. Which I take to mean we can only change ourselves and the future.

I have hated a lot of this journey. I feel immense compassion for that wounded woman, and I am proud that I no longer feel that way.

To all of you on that path, Urworthy is right - we get through to the other side and life is good there.