job - thank you for saying what you feel life for my h is probably like - I feel so torn with my feelings atm. Its a complete mixed bag and I know all of you here understand and have felt it. Marry her omg, I have not got past the fact he is even with her yet - it absolutely kills me inside.
Originally Posted By: job
Have you given any thought to doing some volunteer work at the local hospital or senior citizen's home? Maybe volunteer at the local library or school? These would not only provide you w/some activities to keep you busy, but also give you experience as well.
I don't want to sound negative - I thank you for all your suggestions and please keep them coming -
I live in a very small and isolated village - atm all that is open is a small newsagent, a small grocery store, a post office, a cafe and a pub. The main trade is tourism - surfing and beach go'ers - all the shops, cafe's, bars and campsites open in March. The nearest place to me is 30 mins away on a very unreliable bus service. We do have a village school and a play group - I have asked if I can help out in anyway and left my number. No library, hospital or nursing home near - I have enquired at the dr's about driving people to appointments and was told they don't provide that service any longer. Its really is like bashing my head against a brick wall. A few places told me that I need a police check done before they allow me to do any kind of work involving people - terrible society we live in nowadays - that we have to do this; that there are so many untrustworthy people out there that it has impacted on those of us who are genuine and want to help.
I will get some work, it will happen, just have to be patient and wait until feb when everyone starts looking for seasonal staff.
Until then I will drink lots of tea and walk the beach lots of times
