Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #5

[HPoirot]

Awhile back there was a man here named Denver2010 (or something close to that). He and his w separated and eventually they did reconcile, last I saw.

Anyhow, at one point Denver could NOT understand how his w would not return to the marriage. He had owned his significant role in the demise of the marriage and had made some big changes.

She had an OM, but Denver got past that due to his own issues. He felt that b/c he had finally made the changes she had long wanted, he could not wrap his brain around why she didn't just ditch the OM and come back.

Hello 25. I wanted to thank you again for pointing me to the Denver_2010 thread. I have started reading it from the beginning and do see similarities on how hostile his W was. She said many of the same things my W says... she gave her life to me but I never showed her she was the one. How she felt entitled to OM as I already made her feel single.

I'm learning a lot and will work harder to be more humble, not angry, more empathic and calm and caring.