10 yr anniversary of your first date??? Take her to dinner or a movie.
Again, your tendency to pressure is showing.
When is her Doc program finished? I think you're going to have to cool your jets until that's done before this goes anywhere. She's got way too much on her plate (of her doing).
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss