Responding Vs Reacting

[Faith2b]

Im almost moved out of the house. I only have the kids rooms to get packed up. I actually only need to get the beds and their toys. He called my friend and said that I needed to return the washer and dryer that it was in the contract. I called the Realtor he said my ex said he would take care of replacing the washer and dryer therefore I was not going to bring them back. My girlfriend told my ex he would have to talk to me further for the rest of the back and forth. He reminded her of the RO well that was that. If he felt that he was that much unsafe I would think he would have made me aware of him filing since last month. So at this point Im over it all. Im going to leave the rest of whats in the house for him to figure out what to do with.

Last night has to have him thinking. He cant be made at me because his lack of communication with me has been a problem for a very long time. So Im really enjoying my time without his calls which are always so pushy. Im really taking this time for me to get my GAL on!! I have less then 3 days to be out of the house and Im feeling quite accomplished with this. Like I said he wanted to help me with this move but it hasn't happened. Im at peace with this. My old self would have been raging and angry...Im ok I feel that this is only more of detachment and more of me standing on my own two feet. It really speaks volumes because. I really dont need him. He told me before he left that I owe him. I was so puzzled by this. But hey in hindsight I feel like what do I know about LOVE!! Im really starting with a beginners mind. Its time for me to learn what love looks like so I can have it with my exh or someone else. I really hope I can continue with him but for now patience is a virtue. I really need to be the example for my kids and my ex may see it.

But again this is definitely for me GAL ON!!