Matt - I wonder occasionally about this new marriage. Being positive it could be that he is attempting to tidy up his life. I hope so.

On a lighter note my xh sent me a link to an article on successful co-parenting. Quite a good article if your children were under about 8 years of age!! And interestingly there was a lot of what he would have normally called psychobabble in the article.

There is some much more appropriate material aimed at those with grown up children, but I thought it was interesting that he thought there could be a way of relating better to his children using outside help.