It might be my blinders but I think this is one of the (very) few occasions where I respectfully disagree with some of what you say. Not least I didn't sooth her much
She was actually talking about her feelings which is new and she tried, with mixed success, to explain her concerns. This is new.
Sure there was some self justification, some bizarro double standards (it hasn't even occurred to her that I will challenge her on primary residency), some general spew/martyrdom and thinly veiled threats but absent anything about OM1 I think it was the closest to open and honest she has been.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
