Got to get my weary frame up and ready to go get s (early am here) but I'll post later.
You're showing real courage here, whether you stand for the m or not, and you have sizeable reasons for not but its very definitely your call, you are showing so much courage, its admirable.
Take care, stay safe
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015