Well, fudge! I asked W if I could pick up s13 at 4:15 this afternoon. I haven't seen W in 5 weeks, I have no pics of her, I was really looking forward to just seeing her. I'm just being honest.

But when I got there W was filling up her car at the gas station. Sigh. She had s13 cleaning the kitchen for about 15 minutes. I had the chance to snoop W's place, her computer, bedroom, etc., but I didn't. It's amazing the pull that snooping still has on me.

One thing I did notice was that W has a cat in her "No Pets Allowed" condo. She has a friend whose place was flooded, and W offered to watch her cat.

I smiled. In one sense, I like not having the craziness of W in my life, and the idea of risking losing her home in order to keep a cat there. But am I crazy? I kinda like and miss that sort of wackiness, never knowing what each day will bring. I'm missing my W today.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace